Forgive 

"When a deep injury is done us, 

we never recover until we forgive."

Alan Paton

Nobody really recovers without forgiving like they would just proceed to grow hate and no forgiveness. Its better to forgive than to grow hate. For example the guy who was in jail for drunk driving and killing to teens. He was sentence to 22 years in jail. The mom of one of the teens forgave him and asked for his sentence to he cut in half. He was released and is now working with that mom and spreading the story to high schools about drinking and driving. This is a good example on how forgiving can heel you and others and you can proceed to live a happy life.